How to Support a Friend Diagnosed with Breast Cancer

Hearing that someone you care about was diagnosed with breast cancer can be difficult. Some people might struggle to talk to or assist the affected friend or loved one. This Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we want to provide you with some of the ways you can support a friend with this diagnosis.

Don’t ask a lot of questions.

Finding out a friend has breast cancer can be shocking. They might have questions they haven’t yet asked their healthcare provider, so try not to ask too many questions. Listen, accept what they are willing to share, and give them time to process the impact of their condition.

Be thoughtful with comments.

While there is no single correct way to talk to someone recently diagnosed with breast cancer, try to be thoughtful with your questions or comments. Avoid making generalisations, comparisons, ageist, or sexist comments. Instead, focus on support groups or resources that might help.

Show up for them.

Offer to go with them to doctor’s appointments. Your presence can provide comfort, especially during doctor’s visits or radiation treatment. If they struggle to understand some information, take notes to help them know what might be required.

Be specific when offering to help.

A friend diagnosed with breast cancer will need your support. However, do not overpromise or underdeliver if they are relying on you. Be specific when offering to help. Share the chores or tasks you can help with and the day and time you will be available.

Look for signs or symptoms of psychological distress.

Someone physically healing from cancer might have psychological symptoms from the disease's impact. Some signs of post-traumatic stress disorder might include constantly checking for lumps, crying, or insomnia. Please encourage them to get therapy, medications, other treatments, or additional support from their healthcare provider.

Let them enjoy the breaks they need.

Avoid discussing your friend’s cancer diagnosis or treatment during shopping trips, lunch, or dinner dates. They may not want to talk about illness constantly. Instead, focus on their favourite shows, spending time with their children, or other activities they enjoy.

We hope these tips will help. Please use our Find Yello listings for doctors, pharmacies, cancer organisations, and related services.

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Sources: Everyday Health, WebMD, and National Breast Cancer.